Monday, October 22, 2007

"I'll let you go"

Apparently some Americans think that "I'll let you go" at the end of phone conversation is polite. Maybe... Not for me with my cultural background.
I would use this phrase only in a situation when I really need a person (to talk, to do something together, whatever) and the person really does not have time and needs to leave and I'm basically making her/him to stay. Then, at some point I may let this person go. That makes sense to me.
But when you call me and then talk to me and you know that I don't mind talking to you, don't say "I'll let you go now."
If you are busy - just say that. Be true and nice to me, instead of pretending like you've been holding me for so long and I didn't want to. If there's something I don't like - I just tell that. So if I was talking to you on the phone for so long, I guess I didn't mind...
Seems logical to me...

1 comment:

Geoffrey Graybeal said...

I TOTALLY agree. I hate that phrase. I'm sure I've used it a time or two, being an American and all. That phone phrase irritates me more than any other. My mom (and others) tell me that. I usually respond, "you're not doing me a favor. I'm fine talking. If YOU need to go, then do so." or something to that effect.